Hello,

I love women and there is nothing else that turns me on more than a pussy, but, as it is, I want to suck a cock. I want to taste it and know how it feels to have someone cum in my mouth.

The thing is, 98% of men I know or see on the street are just a total turn down, and I would never touch their cocks…

Having said that, I have a friend who I think might be into it and doesn't disgust me. He has dated some girls, so I know he is straight, but I have the feeling that he would not punch me in the face if I plainly told him that I want to blow him. My question is: should I say it? I guess I am too afraid of being wrong about how he is.

Has anyone else been in my position?

 

I doubt very much that you'll get to blow him asking him like that. There were plenty of girls I wanted to fuck and got to fuck a few of them. But I didn't walk up to them and say, HEY LADY YOU WANNA FUCK! I'm not telling you what to do. You should be old enough to know.

 

Put a porn in the dvd player and start watching it. See if he starts jacking off and slowly reach over and replace his hand. If he makes no move to stop you play a bit then just lower your head and start giving him a blow job.

Or the other way is to say hey i am kinda curious what it would be like to give a blow job....what do you think want me to make you cum with my mouth?

 

During casual conversation bring up the topic of bi-sexuality and see where he stands. However, even though he might say it disgusts him that might be a defense mechanism against being labeled while he really might be curious about it. Let him know how you feel, that curiosity has caused you to start thinking about what you might be missing. See where it goes.

 

Just be open enough to bring it up in conversation. Get the topic on sex (not hard for 2 guys to do) then ask have you ever been with a guy or would you be & see what he says & take it from there..

 

Can't go wrong with this.

 

Remember that sometimes fantasy can be better than the real thing. The fact that you are picky about whos cock you want in your mouth, sounds to me like the fantasy is what gets you off rather than the reality.

It's a bit like women who have rape fantasies, they have them because in their heads they get to chose the person who assaults them, they get to chose what happens to them and whether they enjoy it because it's in their heads. The reality is a far, far different, something the majority of those women are well aware of.

I have many fantasies that I am happy to keep as just that. I sometimes enjoy watching gangbangs and I will occasionally fantasise about it but I also know that it's not something I would want to do in the real world.

Something else to consider is the consequence of your friend NOT wanting anything to do with your desire to suck his dick...... How friendly are you with him? Is it going to be majorly awkward if he turns you down?

You have to decide whether this is something you genuinely want to do. If it is, then go for it and don't forget to keep us updated .....

 

I understand that you're not gay or bi, but just curious about sucking a dick, IMO first and foremost try it on a dildo, if that still doesn't get the job done then just plain and simple sit your friend down and ask, don't even try and joke about it, be serious because that will just ruin the whole mood of the conversation, if and only if he is interested then you can put on a porn video to help him get settled in and comfortable enough to want to jerk himself, remember to turn the lights off since neither of you are gay or bi so both of you don't accidently make eye contact and just stop out of instinct. Remember that when he's jerking himself is mostly likely the best time to make your move, then just slowly go down on him, and remember since your both guys, don't talk just let him pretend he's with a girl instead.