My husband says when he cums in my mouth his orgasms are more intense. I have known this for years because when I have his dic in my mouth I am in total control. I can get him(and probrably most men) to agree to anything. Your Thoughts??

 

I think that it doesn't matter where a man cums, whether it's in a mouth , pussy, or in his hand, as long as he cum's. But I'm a woman and I'm just taking an educated guess. I think.

 

It does matter, at least to me. There is a psychological difference. Cumming in her pussy give me the control, and the animalistic impregnation possibility... primal... forceful... raw sex.
In her mouth there is an amazement... "wow, she's doing this!!!... she wants it so intimately... she is consciously sucking... keeping her teeth off... controlling her breath..." To me, a blowjob is more powerful...
Masturbation is fun, like a playful thing... but not nearly as satisfying psychologically... but it can be the best orgasm because I have complete control.

 

My cum being swallowed is always exciting. There's just something about it.

And since I don't want kids, my cum ending up inside a pussy (only happened once, should have thrown that old condom away) is terrifying. But even with a condom on, there is a certain satisfaction to driving home pelvis to pelvis as I cum.

Biggest three orgasms I've had were from masturbation and vaginal intercourse. But I just had a huge orgasm from a handjob a little bit ago. And an amazing blowjob yesterday... So I'm thinking @mayling is right. Or, more specifically, I'm thinking it depends on all the other factors as well. How horny I am, how good the sex is, the time, the setting...

 

Ok @naztypanty psychologically then you think it feels better but realistically it feels the same right ? What about if when she gave you the blow job, does she spit or swallow ? Does that factor into the equation ? Or ?

 

No, pussy is very different. The lubrication feels more slippery and there is no worry about teeth or breathing. And with a pussy you drive your cock as deep as you want, as hard as you want. With oral she sets the pace and depth. Saliva isn't as slippery. Swallowing is important for the most satisfying blowjob, taking you into her, making your emission part of her body.

 

I love and want both but oral is usually the most intense for me, as she is in control. I especially like to end with a blowjob.

 

The mouth is great but, something special about cumming in her pussy. I think the difference is she is usually cumming with me when i cum in her pussy.

 

I like both, but they are different in their own way.

 

All over her fucking face lol

 

All over his balls!

 

You know, I never got much of a kick out of cumming on someone. I mean, it's an orgasm, but that doesn't add something to the experience for me.

 

I see what you are saying, i just think its a power move and for some people it is a turn on

 

Pussy, so much less chance of Climax Interuptus lol

 

Pussy it usually sends her into her climax

 

Cumming in her mouth always seemed more sensual, personal, intimate, when she swallowed my cum, it was like she was taking my essence, my DNA, the most personal part of me, almost like combining out two beings into one.
A mouth to me seems more willing, accepting, cooperative with a cock, sucking at will, rather than a pussy, which while being fucked can look forced, intruded upon, violated.
Cumming in her mouth is special, a gift, especially with a willing swallow .....while fucking seems mandatory, main stream, nothing special.

 

When I cum in her pussy, I work for it. When I cum in her mouth, she works for it. So there's a big difference in the sensations. There's a big difference in the intensity and sensation of my orgasm, when I just jerk off in 5 minutes, compared to when I edge

 

Or.....how about the 'O' wrecker...sometimes gf gets so carried away sucking...for example, she can start sucking my cum out right before I start orgasming! Am not fond of that, OF COURSE. Now when I am close, I'll sometimes say 'go slow baby'. Naturally, this is when I let her blow me as opposed to face-fucking her, where I am in control. I can edge better that way and make her swallow many times. Also, it is easier for her to wave her finger(s) in my ass that way...making it all the more intense.
Overall, I have no preference - mouth, vag, ass...they all offer great sexcitement.

 

i love cumming in my girls pussy. she can get a little over half in her mouth before gagging, when i fuck her i feel all her pussy wetness and warmth and i can go all the way to the bottom whare as i only get half the feeling so i love cumming in her pussy.

 

In the mouth